Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Encounter At The Pub

Encounter At The Pub
   It was late in the evening.  Mary was working at the local tavern serving people their food and drinks and clearing off the table.  The country is on a tangent about whether to split away from England and to start a new country of its own or if we should stay under the rule of King George.  People don’t care what her thoughts are since she is a woman but she is very much interested in what happens to the country.  She is able to pick up tidbits of what is happening from the local customers, many of whom work for the government.  They don’t know or don’t realize that as they speak she is listening to their conversations about the turmoil our nation is facing.  To them, she is just another bar wench. 
     The large wooden door opens.  They all stop to gaze at who is entering the tavern.  It was a well-known patriot Ben Franklin and his beloved son, William.  They come in here quite often to discuss politics.  They remove their overcoats and place them on a hook on the wall.  Ben gives a wave to others he knows sitting down already enjoying their spirits.  Ben and William walk over to another group of people and give a handshake and a pat on the back as they greet one another and engage in some small talk.
     “No.  William and I have a few things to discuss this evening so we will be sitting alone this evening.  Thanks for the offer.”  Ben says to one of his colleagues.  He nods a goodbye and motions to William over to a table by the window.  The candle on the table reflects their portrait on the glass window. 
     Mary pours them their regular ale and heads over to their table.  “Good evening, gentlemen.  I hope I find you in good health.” 
     “Ah, Mary.”  Ben greets Mary first, “You are looking lovelier each time I come in here.”  He smiles broadly at her. 
     “Oh, that is because your eyesight if failing you again.”  Mary jest with him.  She glance over at William.  “Hello William.”  She gives him a flirtatious smile.  Years ago they had a brief affair but she never stopped having feelings for him.  His career and marriage to Elizabeth took him to another direction of being Royal Governor of New Jersey.  How mary envied Elizabeth’s position in his life.  That should have been me, she thought to herself. 
     He eyed her petite little figure in her dress that enhanced her bosom.  You can tell by the look in his eyes that he was reflecting on those nights with her long ago.  “Hello, Mary,” he whispers back to her. 
     “Mary,” Ben interrupts their gaze, “Will and I need to discuss some things privately.  We will not be eating anything tonight. “    Mary turns to Ben, smiles and nods to him and walks back to the bar.   Little did they know that Mary was listening intently to their conversation.  They have been in there a few times before arguing between staying loyal to England or taking a risk and starting a new country.
     “Dad, “William speaks up, “How many times must we go through this?”  He pleads, “We need to stay loyal to King George.  America does not have a strong enough economy, military or any other means for America to stay afloat on its own.  England has been good to us.  This is our way of life.”
     “I thought so too, son, until I seen the light.  We have no say here, in America.  England is on the other side of the world.  They don’t care what happens to us over here.  Don’t you understand?  They want to tax us for THEIR own good, NOT OURS! “ Ben’s fists hit the table rattling the glasses.  He quickly regains his composure.  “England has been good to us when we needed them.  But how can they tell us what to do when they are so far away.  They don’t know how we had to have dealt with the settler’s and the fights with the Indian’s.  We cannot trade freely who we want to trade with!  We can only trade with who King George says we trade with.  That is not fair to those who are trying to make a living by buying and selling.  We need fairness in our country!”
     “Don’t you see? They HAVE to tax us.  How else are they going to pay for the soldier’s coming in to protect us from those darn farmers creating havoc in the streets, burning down homes that people worked so hard to build and all their belonging turned to rubbish?!  It is THOSE farmers and bar hoppers that are burning effigies of our FRIENDS out in the street!  Our country could be a peaceful country if they abide by the laws of England!”  William voice starts to rise.
     “THOSE people,” Ben snaps back, “are standing up for your freedom in which you are quick to deny.  They are there to stand up for what is right for our country.  There is no one forcing them to do what they do.  They do it because they BELIEVE in a freer way of life.  They do it for the potential of a greater nation.” 
     “These people, Dad, are just common everyday men.  They know little of what it takes to run a country.  The country cannot provide for itself naturally.  Rules have to be set into place.  Laws have to be made.  This is not all free.  Someone will eventually have to pay for it and it can only be done through taxes.  Did you hear me?  TAXES!  The same argument that these farmers are fighting for will still have to give their money over to the government, whether it be England or America.”
     Rain starts to tap on the window.  They stare at the window for a moment in silence.  Their thoughts are running madly through their minds.  They have always enjoyed each other’s company but the stress of the nation is tearing their closeness apart.  There is a pain residing deep in their hearts but hopeful that the other person will see their point of view and join in their cause.  Their attention is distracted by Mary who started wiping up a table across from them.  She smiled kindly at them as she uses her wash rag to wipe a few crumbs off the table and into her hand.  They nod and smile back at her.  Little did they know that she was trying to get closer to hear what they were talking about.
     “William, it is true that taxes are going to happen whether we are under the rule of England or not.  But if we have control then we get to say where the money goes.  Not England!  We can use the money to help build better roads and help develop new towns.  The tax money would go to US, NOT ENGLAND!”  Ben’s voice roared.
     “You don’t understand.  England is our bread and butter.  They appointed me governor of New Jersey, for crying out loud,”
     “And with MY help!”  Ben  sternly interrupted.
     “True, you did help with that but it was England who finalized it.  If I join the patriot cause England will hang me for treason.  They see fit for me to help them govern New Jersey.  If I can’t do that what will I do?  I have a family to raise and to take care of.  Speeches alone cannot feed my family.  Who is to say, if we become a new nation, that the people will want me to still govern for them?  I cannot take that risk!  It is too costly!”
     “Sometimes it is the costly risk that changes the direction of where our lives need to go.  We must unite with the patriots and take a stand against England!  I want you on our side, son.”  Ben places his hand on top of William’s.
     William quickly pulls his hand away from his father.  “Do you actually hear what you are saying?  This is treason!  TREASON!”   The other people in the bar look over.  Mary stands up and watches closely now at what is happening. “Going against your country is treason!  For everything England has done for you, dad, you are ready to turn your back on them!  How dare you!”  William bellows at his dad.
     “How dare I?  HOW DARE I?!”  Ben starts to stand up.  “You, son, have a yellow streak going down the center of your back!  If I had every taught you anything it is to take a stand for something to believe in.  It is to do what is right and not hide in your glorious comfort!  We need to take stands!  America needs us to come together as a nation and pull away from England.”  Ben’s voice started to quiver.  “If you cannot see that then you are no longer my son!”
     The whole tavern was now watching Ben and Will.  It was silent for a moment.  No one could move.  No one could speak.  Mary couldn’t believe they were both that upset with each other over this issue.  She had a look of concern on her face as she hugged her dish rag close to her.
     “You, Dad, are a Traitor.  You are a traitor to England!  When this is all over you will be charged as such!  Remember that!”  He got up, walked past his dad without saying another word and grabbed his cloak from off the wall.  He opened the heavy wooden door and the cold rain slapped him in the face as he entered out into the evening slamming the door behind him.  The tavern was still silent. 
     Ben looked down at their drinks.  How did I let this happen?  Ben thought to himself.  “Careless words.  Careless words.”  He muttered to himself.  He reached down grabbed his mug and raised it up to his lips.  His eyes came in contact with Mary and noticed her worried look.  Without removing his stare from hers he chugged down the rest of his ale.  He put down his mug and walked up to her and kissed her on the cheek and whispered to her, “It will be alright, my dear.  Don’t you worry. “   Ben reached into his pocket and paid for their tab.  He quietly walked over and grabbed his coat, tossed it over his arm and left the tavern. 
     What the people in the tavern realized they had seen was more than just a father and a son fighting.  They were seeing the personification of what is happening between England and America, with England being the father and America its son.  They realized a tension is rising fiercely among them that cannot be stopped.  Side will be taken as who is loyal and who is a patriot.  A war will be fought and lives will be lost.  At the end they all hope it will be worth it.    

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

The Bridge Built With Glue

1978 press photo
     If you live around the Saginaw, Midland, Bay City area of Michigan right away the title makes you think of the Zilwaukee Bridge.  This bridge is on I-75 just 5 miles north of Saginaw.  Before this bridge was built a draw bridge was used in its place.  I can remember when I was very young my Aunt Cindy was up visiting from Tulsa, Oklahoma.  She was engaged and my mom, my Aunt Joyce and I went to Bay City to look at wedding dressing or other wedding items.  I remember stopping at the draw bridge.  It might of been my first time seeing a draw bridge.  As a child is was so neat to see the road just raise up verticle to let the ships go through.  Even though I enjoyed seeing the draw bridge I never thought that I would probably never see that draw bridge again over the Saginaw River.  The Zilwaukee Bridge was built to help ease the highway congestion that the draw bridge created. 

     My grandmother's farm is set behind the Z-Bridge.  Thinking real hard I think I can still picutre going out to the farm and seeing cranes high up in the sky looming over the trees in the distance building the Z-Bridge.  Again, I didn't take too much notice to them as I was a child and busy playing but I did love the landscape out at the farm and I knew there was something huge far off in the distance that was being built. 

     Growing up I would often hear talks about the Zilwaukee Bridge.  I remember people talking about how a section of it came crashing down and rumors were spread that it was built with glue and the glue didn't hold.  I would think of the cow on the elmer's glue bottle and picture a tanker truck spreading this white sticky glue over everything. 

     Obviously, rumors are seldom true.  Back in 1982, a section sank 5 feet in the wet boggy ground while the other side of the section rose up three and a half feet.  In doing so it caused major cracking to the pier footings.  MDOT ended up firing that contractor and hiring a new one to finish up the already over budgeted project. 

     Highway I-675 was built to help route traffice around the Zilwaukee Bridge to help ease traffic from the draw bridge.  It also was helped loop traffic through the downtown Saginaw area.   

Map of where I-675 loops around I-75 to avoid the Zilwaukee Bridge

     At the end of the everything the bridge is about a mile and a half long and raises up about 125 feet above the Saginaw River.  There is epoxy that is used as joint sealant and when it hardens is stronger than concrete.  Perhaps that is where the saying of "made with glue" comes from.  After over 20 years of planning and building the bridge was finally open to the public in 1988.  Sadly, my grandfather (on my mother's side) who enjoyed keeping track of the building of the bridge died a few months before it opened.  My grandmother (also on my mother's side) vowed never to go across the bridge made with glue as she was worried it would fall. 

     That summer her health was failing quickly.  With my sister driving my mom, brother, Nonnie (that is what we called my grandmother) and I all piled into the Cadillac for a scenic drive.  Nonnie was in the front seat when she noticed a huge bridge up a head of her. 

     "MICHELLE!" she bellowed out to my mom.  "YOUR DAUGHTER IS DRIVING US OVER THE BRIDGE!" 

     We all laughed with delight as Nonnie was powerless to stop the car from going over.  I think the whole time she held on to the car door handles screaming until we got to the other side.  I will never know if she truely enjoyed it and was glad she did it or if she was glad she was on the other side.  A few months after that she, too, passed away.  I am glad of having that memory of her going over the bridge when it was newly opened.  It makes that bridge a bit more special to me.  I was 11 years old. 

     Since that time between I was 11 and 14 I had been across that bridge many times and I loved it.  I loved the part when near the top you could look over the edge if you sit up tall and see my other grandparents farm and see the barns.  I loved how being up so tall you can see forever it seemed.  I never thought twice about that bridge that is until I was 15. 

     I took driver's training through Sears Century Driving School at the Fashion Square Mall in Saginaw.  I will save my driver's ed for another blog but for my instructor everyone had to cross the Z-Bridge but it was unannounced to us.  After one day of driving around Saginaw my instructor told me to get on the highway and head north.  I was a good driver and had no problem in doing so.  Suddenly we round a corner and there stood like a huge dinosaur was the Z-Bridge.  It never seemed so big and terrifing before.  But I had never been behind the wheel before going over the Z-Bridge either.  I seen an exit right before the bridge. 

     "You want me to exit here?"  I asked the instructor as my hand was getting ready to push the turn signal upwards for the right blinker to come on.

     "Nope,"  he says calmly, "Go up and over the bridge."

     I couldn't breath.  My hands gripped tighter around the steering wheel.  I slowed down to the point where the instructor had to tell me to go a bit faster.  I wanted to shut my eyes but I couldn't.  What if Nonnie was right?  What if the bridge is built with glue?  What if another section comes crashing down below?  It seemed like forever before I came to the other side of the bridge.  After I was off the bridge it felt like I could breathe again.  My fingers relaxed around the steering wheel.  I did it!  I would tell myself over and over. 

     A year later I had moved to the other side of the state and never really had to deal with the Z-Bridge again.  I have been over that bridge a handful of times since I was 15.  When I get near that bridge as I make my way back to Sagianw my breath stops again and I can't start breathing again until I get to the other side.  My kids find it funny that I don't like that bridge.  However, if I am not driving, I still find myself sitting up a little taller to catch a glimpse of my granparents farm off in the distance. 
Aerial view of the Zilwaukee Bridge.
Courtsey of Mlive.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

American freedom; at what cost?

     All over the American media is talking about how the government is listening in and recording phone conversation, emails, and texts from American citizens.  Our local news station asked the viewers on their input on this.  I was surprised to a lot of their reactions.  Many were in support saying they have nothing to hide so it shouldn't be a problem. 
 
     Has American become so lethargic to our rights that is being stripped away?  The government uses phrases of "For the good of the people"  and "For our protection..."  to make people believe that the government has our best intentions.  This is using a fear factor tactic to sway those to believe that the government is there to keep us safe.  How many rights must be taken away to keep us safe?  At what cost must we pay to feel "safe" in our own country?!
 
     From the start of school it is indoctrinated in the little children's mind that the government is there to take care of them. 
 
      "Send your children off to day care for the day care can take better care of your children."
     "Let us feed your children because the government knows what foods are good to feed your children."
     "Let us teach the children that guns are bad and that it should be reported if someone has a gun."
     "Let us choose what the best care is for your health because the government does a great job on taking care of your health."
 
     And I could go on and on.  These children are learning to rely that whatever the government says is gold.  They know what is best because they run the country.  People in Washington D.C. does not care what is going on in every little town and in every neighborhood.  But they still want to control it.  As long as we, citizens, obey and do what the government likes then there will be harmony in Washington.  This is NOT what America if founded on. 
 
     All those that have died in the Revolutionary War need an apology.  They have died to start a new country away from the tyranny of England.  We did not want a King to dictate what the country does.  They wanted the citizens of the new country to have a choice in how they live and how they raise their family. 
 
     As children in school we had 2 drills, a fire drill and a tornado drill.  Perhaps if you lived in the far west you also had an earthquake drill.  Today's children now have to have lock-downs of what would happen if there was a shooter in the school.  That is sad that elementary school children have to live in fear of someone walking in the school shooting people.  Their right of safety has now been taken away and stripped from them permanently.  And more and more rights will be taken from them over their years of growing up. 
 
     A holocaust survivor, Leon Leyton, talks about the beginning of WWII and how people asked why didn't the Jew's stand up to the Nazi's when the Nazi's started attacking them. 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMbFOkS6WzA  Take note from the time 2:09 to 8:40.

He mentions that the time right up until the war officially started the Jews were told that this would be just a small inconvenience to put up with until the war was over.  They believed the Holocaust would of never went to the degree that it did.  Most of the rules were silly ones like the Jews couldn't sit in park benches in the park.  Most didn't want to waste the time to argue with it.  They would just sit in the grass instead.  Then more and more tighter restrictions took place.  Before they knew what was going on it was too late to take action against the Nazi's. 
 
Must we wait, America, before things go too far before we realize that we had too much taken away from us?!  How many more rights must be taken from us in order for us to feel protected.  The only protection we need, right now, if FROM the government.  We need less government involvement in our lives and let us live our lives as WE see fit.  We need to take a stand and say enough's enough or else it will be too late for America. 
 
     The sad part about all of this is that we elected these people to represent our voice and instead they are tearing apart our country little by little.  It's our fault, America.  Our fault.
 
 
 
 
 


Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Will Bubbles Become The New Illegal Toy

     If we all think hard enough we can remember at least one toy in our childhood which now is blacklisted from children to play with today.  My mom would tell me that as a child her and some neighborhood friends would have competitions of rolling mercury balls down the driveway and seeing who would win.  Today, we have to turn in our mercury thermometers and exchange it for digital ones.  I understand the evils of mercury but my point is, that at a time in our history, mercury was a toy. 

     Think of the playgrounds back in yesteryears.  Remember the teeter-totter?  Now look at today's newer playgrounds.  What is missing?  The teeter-totter.  Due to our generation of giving each other cherry bombs and hopping off just to let the person on the other side come crashing down this outdoor activity is now deemed dangerous.  Kids get hurt.  This is a part of childhood.  It is learning about knowing your limits and figuring out situtations.  I even remember falling off backwards trying to do a silly stunt and having the wind knocked out of me.  It hurt.  But I got up, wiped away tears, and went back at learning to master the silly stunt I was doing. 

     Another playground item that is missing in today's playground is the merry-go-round.  You can still find these in older parks.  Kids would spin themselves sick for the fun of it.  When the child was sick enough to vomit they would stand off to the side, get sick while other kids laughed with delight, then the sick kid would hop back on for more spinning.  Again, children got hurt from time to time but it was expected.  Now the once favorite item at the parks is disappearing.

     Lawn Jarts.  Popular outdoor toy where a person has to toss this razor sharp object into a circle placed on the ground and the jart will stick into the Earth.  Sadly, a little girl died and her dad went on a crusade to have them banned.  In 1988, a full ban was in place.  You can still play the game but it has a weighted ball for a tip instead of the pointed end.  As a child I remember playing with the original jarts.  It was fun.  I recall my friend David and I, up at our cabin at Houghton Lake, would toss them up in the air real high and run out of the way before the jart hit us as gravity pulled it back towards the groud.  Looking back I realized we were being stupid with it and not realizing the dangers of it at the time but I am sure if either one of us got struck by a jart then we would then of known its dangers.  We would of pulled the jart out and continued playing. 

     There have been children in past generations who had their mouth washed out with soap.  I know I chewed on a bar every now and then growing up.  And I deserved it.  I don't disagree with that punishment I received at all.  Today, it is child abuse for having a child's mouth washed out with soap.  In the new liquid soaps children have got sick over digesting it. 

     The other day I was outside blowing bubbles with my 4 year old son, Levi.  As I blew into the bubble I was thinking that I am putting my germs into this soapy bubble.  I am healthy so I wasn't really worried but I gave more thought into it especially when my son tried catching the bubbles with his mouth.  I watched my germ filled bubbles floating off into the day sky thinking my germs are being spread everywhere.  What if I was a preschool teacher blowing bubbles for my class and they tried eating the bubbles?  Is the soap used for the bubbles strong enough to kill off my germs?  What if I had a cold and did that?  Would my cold germs carry over and infect another child?  Think of the birthday cake.  The birthday person blows all over the cake and then we eat it without a thought to it.  If we were in a restaurant and a waitress blows all over our food we would be grossed out by it and not eat it, but for cake it is okay?!  Popping someone else's bubbles with their germs inside is okay?  Or perhaps the next generation will discover the ill ramifications of blowing bubbles and this once beloved activity of childhood will be then deemed dangerous. 

As a final twist of thought; the yo-yo was once used as a weapon.